To My Best Friend..

it has always been a joy for me to read other people's blog but my best friend's blog, or rather his wife's and his blog, has been a wondrous little mini journal to read. how i envy the both of them. they are meant for each other i must say. just perfect. and every time i think of bliss, i'll think of them. if there's ever anything that i can dedicate to the both of them, it will have to be the pinnacle of joy and happiness. i'm really glad to see them so happy together. you know some people just ooze bliss out of them? you really got to see them to believe it. of course marriage is absolutely not anything like a cupcake, where sugar and cream is everywhere. every other couple quarrels, but ultimately, it is how they come to an agreement that matters. sometimes i really wonder how they manage to do it. for me, i'm having a helluva trouble even trying to get someone to quarrel with, to say the least. haha!

so well.. i just like to say HAVE FUN BUDDY, all your life..

Here I Am Again.. Better And Stronger..

i have decided not to stop writing. i thought i was going to, until someone special actually left me a note telling me not to due to one really special reason that left me tearing a bit. this is further confirmed by another person close to my heart. i felt really inspired to continue contributing my two cents, and here it is.

the past three months have been quite an eye-opener. it was like i became another person totally. it had the strangest effect on me. this period has taught me many things. too many things. to people in search of themselves, please, do yourself a favor and never stop searching. alas, in the course of searching, you may tend to lose yourself to your surroundings. what i mean is, norms will be norms. do not ever conform to norms, for you will never find yourself in norms. do not let other comments shape your search for your true self. be true to yourself. if that is not you, do not follow it. it is a simple thing to say, but probably the hardest thing to do. believe me. i have just gone through it. and i have found myself. through the hard way, sad to say. there are many obstacles to finding your true self, and a pity, that relationships tend to be one such obstacle.

relationships are wonderfully created for the joy of people, and intimate relationships, for the betterment of two people. why i mention that relationships may act as an obstacle to finding your true self is because, if either one party dominates the relationship, which is actually a matter of fact and is also a separate topic altogether, he or she may just cause you to change your behavior to suit him or her. and, that is not being true to yourself. of course, there is also the element of compromise. however, when push becomes shove, i really do not think that it is appropriate to compromise anymore. whatever i just said is just in a nutshell. i would love to be more detailed in my expression, but i would like to leave it to a probable thesis, which i may write in due time.

well, i do not know what to write anymore. i shall just sign off here i guess. thank you for reading. cheers.